Too often we focus on what the next person has, in particular people that we do not even know, come in contact with, or have ever been in the prescence of. Like it is some race with a finish line. It is a blessing to compete at that level, however that is done after a level of health and fitness are attained. Before that and every other aspect of life is against the yourself, to be the Better You.
That continual comparison and falling short of it creates a bitter pearl inside and the more continous the comparison the larger and heavier that bitter pearl becomes.There is a productive way to use this desire and that is to create an attainment path for the item or image.
Determine what is required, the items needed. Then find what needs to change in your life, it may be the job, the food, the intensity, friends, or location. There is something that is holding you back and letting that go is where the continuous competition is. Change what you used to do, who you used to be and you will find the Better You.
Nutrition + Fitness = Health